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  THE CIRCLE OF COURAGE

Challenging behaviors of all kinds derive from unmet needs, most prominently the “Circle of Courage” needs for belonging, mastery, independence, and generosity (Brendtro, Brokenleg, & Van Bockern, 2002).

Maladaptive behaviors are like addictions; without opportunity to learn how to pro-socially fulfill the unmet need(s), youth are destined to engage in misconduct over and over again (Marshall 2002).

While the use of consequences and the development of behavior plans that focus only on stopping the behavior may be effective in the short term, they are not necessarily an invitation to the type of growth that connotes self-discipline, responsibility, and the building of a sense of community (Jones & Jones, 1998).

The Circle of Courage phases seek to affirm positive disciplinary practices by departing from the traditional expression of level systems and offering a system that is strength-based and focused. It identifies primarily four overlapping needs of youth (belonging/attachment, mastery/achievement, independence/autonomy and generosity/altruism), and provides behavioral benchmarks associated w/ each need area that reflect positive expectancy.

The phases are aimed at encouraging youth to assess, and evaluate their own behaviors and to do their personal best rather than pit them in competition against one another. Implicit to the process is the understanding that learning, teaching, support, and individualization are required to assist and support youth toward achieving the various benchmarks associated with each phase.1

Circle of Courage Phase Goals:

  • Belonging: To engage youth in a safe environment that promotes attachment, trust, friendship, cooperation, and acceptance.
  • Mastery: To develop a sense of achievement, coping-ability, talent, concentration – focus, comprehension, and organization.
  • Independence: To demonstrate responsibility, assertiveness, self-confidence, self-control, and optimism.
  • Generosity: To show respect, kindness, empathy, forgiveness, and purpose.

Note: Much of the material cited was sourced from Journal, Reclaiming Children & Youth Vol. 14, #3